It’s been pointed out to me that my original blog was one-sided as it only dealt with what a man should do. Guilty! It made me think back to my first wife and what happened shortly after we got married. I don’t remember after all these years what I did or said, but it clearly sent the signal I was initiating sex. Her response was, “Again?” The effect of that one word on a new husband wasn’t great. I knew from her responses in our intimate moments that she desired them as much as I did. We sat down and talked. That was almost sixty years ago and I realize the mores today are different, but I think what I learned will always be applicable. Basically what I told her was that she didn’t have to wait for me to initiate sex she could do it. She was a bit shy at first but became an excellent seductress. Men are visual. She used the fact that what I could almost see was a better turn on than seeing everything. When we were alone, she might wear something that would let me see almost all of her breasts but not quite everything. She might wear one of my shirts and it just wouldn’t come down all the way to cover everything all the time. She might unbutton a couple of buttons on her blouse and lean over and kiss me giving me a view of her breasts still covered by her bra and whisper something like “I’m horny” or “I need you.” There were other things that she did, but this is a continuation of the original blog and this one is aimed at the women readers of the blog. I’m sure my female readers can come up with many more ideas. If you want to share them, you can leave a comment below. If you’d like to remain anonymous, you can send an email to nelsericksen{@}gmail.com. This is an email account for one of my main characters in one of my novels and people use it to contact me about that novel and other of my writings.
